Adjusting to Life in Cuenca

Life here in Cuenca is quite different than my life in the United States. I’ve been here in Cuenca for about two weeks and Ecuador for about three weeks, and while there are undoubtedly some major adjustments, I’d say the transition into a different culture has been going smoothly. There are actually a few differences that I really like about life here. One is the eating schedule. In the US dinner is the main meal of the day, where it is common for families to eat together; however, here in Ecuador lunch is the main meal of the day. I wasn’t sure initially how I would like that change in routine, but it feels like a true break in the middle of the day, which is really nice to have! Also on the topic of food, having fresh fruit juices 2-3 times per day has been amazing, and is something I hope to incorporate into my life after I return home.

I have also really enjoyed staying with a host family so far. My host family has been very welcoming, and aside from the initial awkwardness I felt from suddenly living in a stranger’s house, everything has been going well. I’ve loved seeing how day to day life is here and I’ve loved feeling like I actually have a home here.

Something a bit harder to adjust to, though, is not knowing the language. I do know SOME Spanish, and I feel like I’ve learned quite a bit since being here, but I am far from feeling like I am truly proficient. Honestly, learning a language can be scary. I’ve quickly gotten more comfortable speaking to people in markets, stores, and cafés which is important, but if I’m asked an unexpected question I sometimes get flustered. I even responded to a question in English once, only to get a weird look from the person who asked. Another time, I tried to order a coffee to go, and instead of saying “para llevar” I said “para llegar” (to arrive). The lady laughed and corrected me. I’m working on not beating myself up over my language related mistakes. I am confident that as I continue to practice it will get easier, but the language barrier is absolutely the one form of culture shock I am feeling!

All in all, I am thrilled with how this adjustment period to living here is going. It is undeniable that life is different here than what I am used to, but if it wasn’t, what would be the point in studying abroad?